Is this too long?

Been dating about two months now and the progression to kiss peck to longer French kissing and hugging and kinda caressing along the waist and back holding hands and all were step by step each date a bit more and the last time we went out he was grabbing more my bum and breasts over the clothes obviously. We hadn’t really had sex yet or skin to skin contact of any kind as we haven’t really had gone somewhere that it’s possible he is a super patient guy since he was trying to get a date out of me for 2 years. Do you guys think it’s a long time of a wait ? Is this normal ? Is this cause he sees me as a long term relationship material ? Is he just not interested in that ? I’m not sure he’s the first potential bf as I never had one before every guy I have met were trying to put sexual moves from the first date