so tired of this....

Harleigh

so i currently live at my mom's house and it's me, my son, my 15 year old sister, my 20 year old step brother, my mom and my step dad.. i am the ONLY one who cleans anything. my mom and step dad do their laundry and that's it. i do the dishes every single day, meaning i wash EVERYONE'S dishes, not just mine and my son's... i clean the kitchen every single day and pick up the livingroom every single day, all while taking care of a 15 month old and working full time, as well as a youtube channel i have to keep up with so that it can become my job one day. 🤞🏻 my mom uses the excuse that she's tired or "never home" as to why she doesnt do any house work.. she works the same amount of hours a week as me, sometimes like 5 hours overtime, IF THAT... she doesnt stand up at work, she sits down, so that shouldnt even be an excuse. she's "never home" because on tuesdays, she goes on "date night" with my step dad, and wednesdays, they go play pool. saturdays and sundays, they spend the ENTIRE day at their friends house, instead of doing housework... the other days, she's here but laying in her bed doing nothing... on TUESDAY, she finally started doing the dishes, finished a handful of them, and decided she was too tired to continue.. and promised she would do them yesterday (wednesday). i knew that was a lie because her and my step dad are at pool from the time they get off work until about 11pm.. so then today, her and my step dad decided they just HAD to go do stuff.. and she texted me saying "ill do them when i get home".. mind you, ive been doing as much dishes as i possibly can everyday, but it's almost impossible to keep up because i was too busy to do them ONE day, and because 6 people live in this house. she has been home for about 20 minutes and has still not touched the dishes.. i went and said something to her while she was sitting on the couch doing nothing and her response was "i just don't feel like it" and i said, okay, i don't feel like doing it everyday either, to which she said, then don't do it.. WHO THE HELL IS GOING TO DO IT THEN... and then she had the nerve to say the dishes weren't hers... but she has a 15 year old daughter WHO IS HER RESPONSIBILITY, no one else's.. who she doesn't make clean up after herself. like literally she buys my sister fast food every single day and my sister takes her trash and sets it on the table right beside the trash can, and her almost full drink in a styrofoam cup sitting beside it, instead of pouring it out and throwing the cup away.. she has a 20 year old step son who is absolutely disgusting and leaves shit EVERYWHERE(ive made a post regarding that before in case anyone is wondering), and she still has the nerve to pretend that she doesnt need to help.. im so stressed trying to keep up with all of the housework completey by myself but i refuse to let this place look like a pig stye... ive tried to talk to her multiple times and it just doesnt work. she'd rather be stuck up her husband's ass 24/7... so now ill just come here and RANT 🙃🙃🙃🙃

moving out really isn't an option right now, as i only have one income and it's hard doing it all on your own. but believe me, i wish i could so bad ☹️☹️☹️

sorry for the super super long post, but im so pissed at this point...

also, in really not sure what group this kind of thing belongs in soo

UPDATE: my mom just told my sister she needs to the dishes tomorrow... while i completely agree she needs to take responsibility and clean up after herself, how is she possibly going to learn when my mom doesnt even do it.