35 days since start of last period.

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Last month my period lasted twelve days. Its usually pretty regular. Mostly spotty maybe only four to seven days. Well. This month I haven't gotten mine yet. My husband and I are trying. Not very consistent because of our work schedules. But I don't want to get my hopes up. I'm irritable. Some what bloated. It kinda comes and goes. And when I feel like I'm starting its just discharge. I'm a little crampy but not constant.. Any opinions?