Ok, so.... my husband told me yesterday that he loves me more than what he used to and by that he is meaning my body. Im going on 8 yrs of marriage with my husband and we have 2 kids now, when we first got married i was 120lbs somewhat flat belly (tiny pudge) and we were in love then i got pregnant with my first and gained 45 lbs so i went up to 165lbs felt huge and after my son was born i lost 20lbs down to 145lbs. I could not lose any more than that, then i gained 5lbs and got pregnant with my second and again gained 45lbs up to 185lbs i again lost 20lbs back to 165lbs (same weight i was when i gave birth to my first) and could not lose any more than that... these photos are from march when i was 165lbs

So my husband and i decided to change our lifestyle and i lost 32lbs and my husband lost 50lbs so far as of today (June 7th) we took monthly photos so we can see our progress and i now weigh 133lbs right now im working to get myself back to 120lbs. My husband told me he loves my body more now with it being flabby and stretch marks all over and honestly im learning to love myself to, he is so proud of me for changing our lifestyles together and doing this as a couple making ourselves healthy and he is proud that im getting back down to my high school weight. But what hurt me the most was that he said he had to force himself to get a hard on to have sex with me (he didnt find me attractive😭 and honestly neither did I)😢. He has fallen back and deeper in love with me than before he cant keep his hands off me, and I LOVE IT😍😍 here is photos of me now

Im so sorry for the long post but i had to tell someone so why not this glow community 😊😊

Edit to bring an update:

I had been wanting to lose some weight but wasnt sure how i was going to do it. I knew i was getting big i had never been that big. Growing up i was always told to never let myself get big and fat (i know what your thinking) and i had that mindset that i could not weigh more than a certain amount. Deep down i knew my husband didnt find me attractive, nor did he ever say it to me, so when we lost all this weight we was in our kitchen and i was goofing around and whatnot and i ended up saying somthing like i guess you dont have to force yourself to get a hard on anymore (and he didnt say 1 word) so i asked him if he had to force himself to get a hard on to have sex with me and all he said was i wasnt wrong. 😢😢that upset me but to be honest i faked some of my orgasms(i know) i just wasn't expecting him to say that comment. Also yes we are very happy and in love we love the progress we have made we both wanted to lose weight and we are both within 15lbs of our goal weight. We are both proud of eachother.