I trust my fiancé so much. Until given reason to question and that’s what he has done.

He stopped having sex. We are in our 20’s !! His sex drive was so high then disappeared..

I asked him the other day “ most men who cheat act like this are you cheating?” I got no reply..

I let it go.

Till i showed up at his place unannounced because I left my money for weddings stuff and needed it.

Went to his room and found his phone on his chest.

I was like I been calling and I pick his phone up to see if they’ve been coming through and I see Snapchat. No biggie. But he only downloads it when I’m not around with the excuse of “i download it and delete it because it’s to much space on my phone” but why only download it when I’m not around. So I seen a snap from some girl so I was like you got a snap let me see what it says so I opened it and no biggie just a picture of her kid.

Then I go back to the regular screen to see a BUNCH of females and messages from them. A bunch of “delivered” signs next to their name and of people I don’t even know and girls he use to be into.

So I dropped the phone on his chest and left.

You won’t have sex with me anymore, you messaging a lot of random females and only when I’m not around, you won’t help me pay for this wedding.. what’s going on..

My mom said he’s probably cheating but it’s hard to believe that from someone who promised you they would never .. I’m torn. I don’t know what to believe anymore.