Being intimate

I’m sure everyone has needs and it’s difficult to deal with them when your in a ldr because there’s no physical contact for long periods of time. Sadly for my partner and I, we won’t have physical contact for a long time but I wanted some ideas for how we can still be intimate. Also if there was some way to add kinks (my bf very kinky... well more like 50 shades of gray kinky mild version)

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Dirty talk or sexting can help. And of course “phone sex” or over FaceTime can work too.

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Rebecca • Jun 11, 2019
It’s like dirty talk while you both touch yourselves

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Ivania • Jun 11, 2019
Is phone sex mostly dirty talk?

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I agree! also, randomly send sexy pictures. whenever u are feeling in a really good (or sexy) mood is the best time. sometimes that energy can translate through a picture. I'll say whatever u or/and your partner consider sexy. it doesn't necessarily have to be naked. it can be half naked, or laying down in a shirt of his, or a face shot with u biting/licking your lips. just something to let him know that he's special, and you're thinking about him, and that u WANT him in more ways than one 😊. send random freaky text messages in the middle of the day or the middle of the night so he'll wake up and see it.

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skype/face time sex is so helpful. it might feel awkward at first if you haven't done it before but that'll go away pretty quickly when you just focus on each other! it can also be helpful to have a vibrator/dildo to fulfill your own needs, and I can't imagine he'd complain about watching you use it! they even make some sex toys for long distance couples but they're a little pricey. just keep the communication open about it with your partner and see what works for both of you and enjoy!