Need help

So tm I have a ultrasound scheduled to find out the gender. Should I tell them to write it down on a paper and them not tell me, or should I just find out. My husband and I are planning on having a gender reveal party either we know and tell his family and mine or I can give the note to a friend. The only thing is is that I don’t know if she will have everything ready in time and get the correct things. I can’t decide what to do.

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