I’m almost 21 & I have never kissed a boy or had a bf.. Is it normal 😢?

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So all my life I I guess wanted to wait for the right time but I guess it never came.. I was not so bummed up about it till my friends made a big fuss about it .. and now I’m kindah sad about it because I really want to love and be loved.. I  really want a boyfriend now but I can’t seem to find one I guess .all I find are online guys .. I want a real bf.. someone I can touch , feel and even kiss . I know I’m just being paranoid though 😢

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There’s nothing wrong with it. Don’t feel bad. Be picky. Find the right guy. Don’t waste your time with just anyone because you want the experience.

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I waited for the right guy. I was 3 years into college when he came along and he was worth the wait. Don't let your friends pressure you into doing anything differently.

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I didn't have my first kiss until I was 21. I married that same man at 22 and we were both virgins. It's not normal, but it's 100% OK. It doesn't say anything less about who you are as a person ☺

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You’re fine! I didn’t have my first boyfriend and kiss till I was 22, didn’t lose my virginity till I was 24 almost 25. Yet I still ended up the first one out of all my friends to get married at 26, so don’t ever let anyone make you feel bad about being picky. Knowing your self worth and not settling for someone just to fit societies norms is not weird or abnormal.

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Your time will come, it doesnt matter how old you are when that happens there's no rush and you're completely normal

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I’m 19 and in the sameeee exact boat!! You’re not alone girl! Lol

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I’m 19 and in the same boat, I’m sure we’ll be fine. 😊

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I would much rather wait for someone meaningful than waste first kisses, first boyfriend, first love, whatever on someone who isn’t worth it! I think it’s great that you have waited so long, and I would encourage you to keep waiting!
One of my friends didn’t have her first kiss until she was 31 because she wanted to wait for marriage. I find that very admirable. I have other friends who dated for almost 5 years and didn’t kiss until they got married at 23 and 25. 
Just because you are dating someone doesn’t mean you have to kiss them. I have been in a no-kissing relationship before, and it was honestly great! We knew each other on a much deeper level because we used our time together to talk and get to know one another. I don’t think kissing is wrong, I’m just saying that it’s not weird to not do it.

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Voted for the wrong one 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️, of course it’s normal (society just creates a completely unrealistic picture of relationships and all that, but you do you boo) xx

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Waiting is admirable, don’t s title just because you’re friends are pressuring you, be yourself and what will be will be when it’s your time you’ll know, hold your head up high it’s a wonderful thing that you haven’t given yourself to just anybody xx

I’m almost 21 & I have never kissed a boy or had a bf.. Is it normal 😢?

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