What to do?

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I’m with a new man. He’s amazing with me and with my young daughter. I have not yet figured out how to get him going. He is not turned on by the same things that previous men I’ve been with have been (mutual masturbation, kissing, touching). He’s not sure how to tell me what to do. I’m at a loss. He can get me off in a heartbeat and he’s incredible. I really need some ideas ladies 😬