Sex with my boyfriend is great and everything but he’s so heavy handed with my clit that it’s usually too intense for me to get off 😫 I’ve told him about it and he really does try to be gentle but it’s still too much. I want to try and get him on board with toys but I don’t want him to feel like he’s not good enough or something. How can I delicately tell him that it’s something I want to try without saying I can’t deal with his big old meat hands?