Worst thing to hear while TTC

Anney • Married April 2013; I`m 26 husband 28 just started ttc last week
Worst thing to hear while ttc is "guess what I wasn't even trying and it happened "
 " I didn't know until I missed my period"
​" I don't really need this baby we were not planning a baby" 
​" I don't like babies I don't know what I'm gonna do I have 2 ugh" 
​" ttc was the last thing on my mind I hope to hear this from you soon"
​And THE WORST THING I HEARD FROM MY ELDER SIS WAS MOST PAINFUL :
​I don't like kids I've just been married two years and two kids what the hell it's a torture for me I never liked kids ; anney(me) loved kids and she have none she should have kids not me" ? I cried and cried and cried although we were not even ttc at that time we just started this month