Backstory: I met this guy on Tinder who actually goes to my college and makes nice music. We both wanted a serious relationship so that was nice! Long story short we started talking and we went on a cute date. The next day he invited me over to his house to watch a movie to which I couldn’t, so he ended up coming to my place; however, he told me he was almost 19, so still 18. I was shocked because I’m almost 20 but he looked way older and I realized he had his age hidden on tinder; no big deal. Well, he made me wait until 2 AM because he really wanted to come over to my place and he was waiting for his parents to go to bed, he was going to sneak out. When he came I asked if he has had sex before and he said yes, but it was months ago. So we ended up having sex. And it was amazing for both, as to what he told me. Fast forward the next day I go to his house to legit only watch a movie and then I left because he had to go to a party and we didn’t want his parents to find us either. That day he told me he was Mormon to which I was like:

Because I know for them is so strict to have sex only after marriage, which was weird because he’s Latin. Well, the next day we didn’t hang out in the morning but at night he texted me at 10:30 pm ish saying he wanted to cuddle, to which I invited him over. He said he was on the way soon, but it was weird since he barely finished a movie with his family... I didn’t say anything. Well, it’s around 11:30pm now and he said he was coming, waiting for them to go to sleep. Then I’m low key thinking “they must have caught him” because it was 12 am now and no replies back so I just went to bed thinking nothing of it. Well, I woke up at 5 am just to find this message:

So I was thinking for HOURS what to reply because 1) he’s technically an adult now, but I understand parents make the rules AND that they’re Latin (so extra overprotective), 2) he’s got two jobs, makes music secretly because his parents don’t want that, and he is definitely scared of his mom; you could tell because he doesn’t respect her when she’s not around but she will do everything when she’s around. When you respect your parents and aren’t afraid you usually don’t do these things behind their back. In my opinion. And 3) we both wanted to sleep together and have a relationship, not just hook ups.

So I replied with this because I wanted to make sure I could talk to her about how he might be feeling. Like, who wants to go look at their 18 yo phone and text the girls he’s had sex with and make them feel bad? For something they both agreed to do?!

And this was her reply. I didn’t reply back. I wanted to say many things. I feel bad for him because now he’s lost his transportation and communication for having sex with me. Like yeah, you could’ve just told him where are you going? Don’t go, and don’t let him go but I feel like this was too much, too rude, and a bit traumatic for him. I’m trying to put myself in her shoes but I don’t think I would check the phone...

However, let’s hope she doesn’t have to swallow her own words because me and her son had sex, and anything can happen... never say never.