So if you consider penis in a vagina the only way you can loose their virginity then what about like lesbians? Would they be virgins still? Assuming they don’t use strapons or dildos. Cause I feel like virginity is doing anything sexual really. Like if y’all give each other oral, hand jobs or fingering anything like that is just as sexual as sex and I wouldn’t consider myself a virgin anymore. What do you guys think?