For the past year, my hubbys been so annoying! He gets on me about everything!! From what I eat ( I am like 105lbs lol) to what I do and wear!! Tells me I don't need anything I want just what I need. Also tells me I don't deserve anything. Tells me I am just annoying, so I tell him well I guess that's who I am, although I don't ever try to be annoying. Anytime I am sad or he says rude stuff and calls me names, I get sad and even cry. All I get from him is that I need to toughen up and Need to quit being a sissy :(. I am a stay at home mom and constantly busy with our son and he calls me lazy and that I don't ever do anything! I get as much done around the house as I am able to. Seems like he's only affectionate when he wants sex or a message which annoys me. 

We live in a crappy unfinished garage that's turned into a living space, gets below 0 in the winter and even with a fireplace it doesn't heat up. So I get on him about finding a nice place to rent. He's a seasonal firefighter and refuses to find any work in the winter. 

I know I can be mean and nag at him a lot about that cuz I get frustrated but it just doesn't seem fair! 

I am a STHM cuz he wants me to be and doesn't want our son in daycare. 

I feel like I am only with him for our sons sake cuz they both have a good relationship. Our son is so clingy to me and screams if I am out of sight which makes it harder for me to leave and try to get a job. 

I do photography but not enough to make a living.

Just don't know what to do but I am just constantly depressed and I know that's not healthy for me. 😩

He's never hit me or been physically abusive, just wanna make that clear.