Me and my husband have a 2 year old boy, and a about to be 4 months boy . im getting the nexaplanon out my arm because ive had trouble with it since i got it . and we are talking bout trying one more time for a little girl cause we want one so bad.. We just cant decide if we want to go to a sneak peak like with did with our youngest to have a gender reveal , or just wait at 20 weeks and find out, or even wait till baby born . im wanting to just wait but if i have a girl i have nothing for her cause i have all boy stuff . so what was your all experience when you didnt find out till baby was born i wanna hear storys . also if we do just wait then it be just me and my husband in the delivery room cause ive want us to only know first.