Hi all 🥰 so I have written in this group before about relationship problems that I have been having with my boyfriend of two years (who is trans). I have mentioned that we aren’t normally on the same page about sex because for the past year I’ve been struggling with depression and anxiety... but his main concern to me will always be about sex. It’s not that I don’t like what we do... I just am more focused with what’s going on right now in my head. I have recently come to the conclusion that I do need therapy so that is what I am in the middle of getting started. But on Sunday I had a very bad day at work, and of course, he was first to bring sex up. I asked if we could just spend the night together and just chill and see what happens from there. He got very upset with me and told me no ther man would deal with my “mental abuse” and broke up with me... I felt awful. He told me everything was my fault. But I am trying very hard to get myself under control.. we have come to the conclusion that we do need a little break just to figure things out. But he’s seeing it as this is all me and he doesn’t need to work on anything... I am just looking for opinions on the situation... if others think it is me and I need to be more understanding.

Thanks ladies x