15 weeks.. strange time in pregnancy

I have been feel pretty anxious the last two weeks. At my 12 week NT scan and OB appointment, everything with our baby girl looked great. I started feeling really anxious the last week bc i don’t feel pregnant and i don’t look it yet either and cant feel her moving yet. I cant tell if my belly is a bump starting or pooch (even though I’m thin I’ve always carried my weight in my stomach).

Its bringing me a lot of anxiety before my next appointment next week.

Im an event planner and my coworker told me not to approach my pregnancy like my work. At work i always have to anticipate the worst case scenario and control all the details the avoid that. pregnancy is the complete opposite and you just have to go with the flow. Not really my strong suit. Im trying but it makes me quite anxious.