I began seeing my boyfriend in January, but after the first month or so, we began fighting often but would figure things out at the end of the night. It was about once a week or so, and we go through periods where everything is good, then something bothers one of us and it’s an argument.

We’re both in college and it’s also our first time doing long distance for a few months for the summer and the last few weeks thats put a big strain on us and has us snapping more.

Typically I’d say “it’s too early to be this bad!” but the reason this relationship feels different is that we met in September and didn’t have much contact, we ended up beginning to talk and see each other in November but never had the solid friendship foundation, so we’re still learning a lot about one another and how the other reacts, and go about things going forward.

I’m tired of arguing though. Is it normal to be arguing this often this early?

What advice do you have?

Thank you.