So my brother is about to be dad to a precious little girl this November... his gf and him are only 17. But it’s come clear to my family that she has told him and my mother that she and her mom don’t want my brother on the birth certificate until he turns 18. They don’t want any advice or anything really for my mom to be involved( her mother thinks my mom should have any rights to the baby so that’s why they don’t want my brother on the certificate)which is odd because she would have any parental rights anyways since it’s my brothers child. In a nutshell this gurl and her mom are not wanting any help and don’t want my brother to have any say in what happens with his child. My brother is scared to death...but he made the choice to have sex and babies happen if you aren’t safe..but this gurl flat out told my brother she could raise this baby alone....she’s more confident than I think she should be but that’s me. I have another post on here stating that I feel she planned this and trapped my brother or it’s not his..I stand by that because it’s just me thinking the worst and the fact this girl thinks she’s got it all figured out, doesn’t want my brothers help or input, told my brother he isn’t going to be on the certificate, told him he can’t have the baby for more than a few hours..just puts red flags in a worried sisters mind. My moms getting a paternity test done once she’s born to make sure it’s his and also because this girl is making it extremely difficult for my brother and our family to be involved with this baby.

If anyone has experienced this before share your stories because I’m just so upset with this girl and how she’s treating my brother and how her mom and her don’t want a lot of involvement from my brother or our mom but ask my mom to buy HER daughter baby things..like this lady needs to get a clue.