Too comfortable

So my bf and I haven’t been going out at all. It’s basically routine at this point. Go to work, go to sleep, have sex maybe, and go back to work.

I’ve been asking him every few weeks or so can we go out and every time I ask him he gets upset with me and starts and argument.

I don’t understand this 😞 it’s making me sad actually and I don’t think he understands I just want some attention sometimes.