I'm 16 and have kissed 3 boys, but never made out with anyone and I really want to, all of my friends have but I haven't and I feel so left out and like im the only 16 year old that hasn't done anything remotely close to sex am I the only one?

Here why I think I'm having issues. I'm 5 ft 6 which is pretty tall considering all my friends are under 5 ft 4 and they are all really tiny and I'm curvy. I have small boobs but a really big butt and big hips. I don't look like I'm 16 and most of my friends are guys and they treat me like "one of the guys" And I feel so so not pretty. I've lied about doing sex stuff to my friends so I don't feel left out or come off as a prude. I'm very very straight and love my boys (I grew up with 4 brothers) and 3 of my best friends who know everything about my are boys. What am I doing wrong? Someone please help me.

This is what I look like (I was trying on scrubs bc I regularly volunteer at the hospital and it was my first time going into the NICU so I needed them) is it my body that guys don't like or am I just not pretty bc I feel so ugly.

Please comment what I should do because I feel so alone and so ugly. I can't tell my friends this bc they are all so pretty and would prolly laugh at me ❤thanks

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Rh

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Just be yourself, don’t lie about your lack of experience with boys it’s nothing to be ashamed of, infact winning your affection should take a little bit of work, you shouldn’t be falling over yourself for just any bit of attention you can get. Often at your age the guys are all about gaining a notch on their belt of experience so they go for the easy mark, there’s nothing genuine about their intentions, it doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive you’re just not easy.

Em

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DAmn girl you are pretty! Don’t worry what everyone else is doing. You will find the right guy and get to experience everything. I wish I would have waited a couple guys and not did all the things I did with them

Li

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You’re not ugly. 💗 You are very beautiful sis! 🤩💞 & learn not to compare urself to everyone else. U are u and u are unique! Be u and u only! 😽🌸

Ja

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Nothing's wrong with you hun

Ma

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I didn't become sexual with anyone until I was 20! There is nothing wrong with that. Sometimes you just have to wait until you're in the right situation with the right person. And girl, you are gorgeous! ❤️

ka

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I used to think like that until I met my boyfriend, so just wait til you meet that special someone. You not ugly or anything tbh I love your hair and it’s color. Don’t blame yourself just you do you and it’ll be ok

ka

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When YOUR ready and comfortable you do whatever it is that you like. Just because your friends have done it doesnt mean you have to. Take it slow and just make sure your ready.