I don’t like complaining about my husband but I feel that he’s not being a supportive partner right now. Our son is about to be 3 weeks old. He took three weeks off of work to help me out with the baby and to give us time to adjust to life with a newborn. This whole three weeks he’s been playing video games all day. He’s picked up (and by that I mean picked up the garbage he’s thrown on the floor while playing games) one time this whole three weeks. I’ve been cleaning every other day, cooking dinner, and taking care of the baby all by myself. Now it’s hard for him to help all the time because I am breastfeeding but when I ask him to change a diaper it’s why? He’s changed about four diapers this whole time. Yesterday he was playing a game and the baby was sleeping so I decided to take a nice shower by myself. I come out of the shower and the baby is crying and my husband is just sitting there playing games. I asked why he didn’t do anything he said “what am I supposed to do he’s hungry” well you could’ve just held him? Right??? Also another thing that pisses me off is I was home from the hospital for ONE day and my husband was already asking for me to give him hand and blow jobs. ONE DAY I just pushed a whole kid out and you want me to give you head already??

Am I being stupid? Am I expecting too much??? Please tell me if I’m being crazy. He pissed me off a lot during my pregnancy not helping around the house and now it’s gotten worse and I’m just about at the end of my rope. I just don’t know if it’s hormones or if I actually have a reason to be mad right now