Little back story:

I just got out of a relationship 2 months ago, extremely toxic/ abusive. But it only feels like a month because he still calls me.

About 3 weeks ago I met a guy didn’t think nothing of him, was NOT looking for anything just trying to heal from all the damage and recently I noticed I actually have feelings but I’m pushing him away????

He’s perfect but I’m not ready and I’ve expressed this and he completely understands and says he’ll be patient. But because of what I’ve been through I don’t think I can “talk” to anyone because I’m constantly questioning everything.

I’m so scared to lose out on a wonderful guy because of what I’ve gone through and I’m not willing to give him a chance.

I think I want to just tell him I can’t.

What’s your guys opinions? Ever been through this? We haven’t even gone out but he’s so sweet I’m really liking him and it’s so scary

Help )-: