I’ve been thinking a lot about my sexuality lately, and I’ve just been making myself more confused trying to figure it out.

Since high school I’ve identified as Bi but I tried the whole dating guys thing and I never felt as connected with them as I do to my current partner (who is the first girl I’ve been with) and She’s the first person I’ve been with where we’ve gotten intimate so I know for sure I like girls. I still find certain guys attractive but I don’t want to have a relationship or do anything intimate with them.

Since starting college, I’ve just kinda not used any labels but think I might actually be a lesbian. But I’m not sure. My partner doesn’t care what I identify as but it helps me not over think when I personally know where I’m at.

Any advice?