im 14 and for the past two years i’ve 100% identified as bisexual. i’ve liked girls and guys both romantically and sexually with no doubt. however, every time i actually get asked out by a girl and accept it i immediately feel uncomfortable, regretful and alienated from myself. i suddenly regret getting with them and feel off, and just overall sensitive and uncomfortable. even if i liked them a lot beforehand!! i’ve really REALLY liked this girl for months now, and last night she asked me to be her girlfriend. obviously i said yes, but the second i got home i got those same feelings of being uncomfortable and alienated. i came out to my mum thinking it’d make it better but it only made it worse, and i felt even more unlike my self and disconnected. it just felt like as soon as i entered a relationship the label didn’t fit. like i wasn’t actually lgbt anymore. i had a full on meltdown this morning and politely broke up with the girl. i’m now somehow confused with the idea of being gay, and i feel like i want to shove it as far from me as possible and never look at it again. i have no idea why and i’m so confused. before i was asked out i was 100% bi and comfortable with it, then the second i get into a relationship (even though i really REALLY liked that person) i feel uncomfortable and sick. i just don’t understand it and i hate it. am i bi? am i faking it? i’m so confused.