I’ve been with this man for 3 years. We have one child and another on the way. We both work full time jobs (his job is more demanding being a union job but still). He picks up our daughter after work and keeps her for two hours four days a week after work until I get home then he gets to relax. Now he has not been doing this the whole 2 years she’s been alive. He only just started pitching in more three months ago when I ended up in the hospital with stress related issues that threatened to put me on bed rest. Last Sunday I was in the hospital again but for breathing problems and dehydration, both which was taken care of and I was prescribed an inhaler to handle future breathing outbreaks. Anyways, the last two weeks he’s been back to slacking. Always on his phone, always outside smoking, going to bed early and then bitching still when he wakes up, visiting his friend at work after he gets off on days that I’m off and staying out late. And it’s not his job has been difficult the last six months on the end side of this job so he hasn’t been sore or tired. He took off Thursday because he was exhausted so I just said fine and took our child to the sitter and made up some excuse to why I would be the one getting her that day. He went to bed early last night and woke up at 11 today. He asked for a slutty bj and I said it’ll be like a 6/10 sluttiness because I can only get so slutty now being 8 months pregnant. He then pouted and bitched because that wasn’t enough and stormed to our room then proceeded to pass out again. It’s now 5:30 and he woke up briefly to yell at our daughter to go to her room if she was gonna cry in which I responded “no, you don’t get to have a say in this meltdown because you’ve been sleeping all day, I’m handling it”. Which he told me to shut up and that all I do is scream anyways. I wouldn’t have to scream if I had help. Like actual help. Yes you pick her up and watch her, your child, for a few hours while I’m at work. But maybe do a dish or laundry here and there? Maybe vacuum while I give her a bath or maybe pick up your trash when you’re done eating? I don’t know. Was I in the wrong for yelling back at him or is he for slacking off again and making it to where I just feel like a single mom?