A little bit of a backstory, when in college I lived in an apartment complex that wasn't the greatest. Parties, drugs, fights, loud people, rude people, trash bags everywhere, etc. It was crappy but all I could afford. I lived there for 2 years, and eventually had to move because someone tried to break into my apartment and I was home alone at the time and it was just a crazy, awful night. That was my last straw, so I moved with the help of my boyfriend. I've been living in a wonderful complex with my boyfriend. The place is clean, quite, and everyone who lives here are mostly professionals, so not stupid college kids. Also, the place is "smoke free," meaning there are designated outdoor spots for people who smoke. We're not a smokers. We have been living here for almost a year and haven't had a problem until about 2 weeks ago. Our new neighbors moved in and since then our apartment has smelled very very strongly of weed. I'm talking like my eyes are burning and my head is hurting kind of strong. Its nauseating and it's making our apartment and belongs stink. I want to tell the management but I'm afraid of starting something and then going through all that scary stuff again. I can't handle that again. My anxiety is through the roof because of my experience at my last place and I'm scared to say anything. We're not going to be living here much longer because I got a job farther away, but the smell is so bad that it keeps me up at night. I could just not say anything and deal with it because it's only really at night and I'm moving soon, but it's also supposed to be a smoke free complex so I shouldn't have to deal with it. I'm torn between fear and frustration.

My boyfriend wants to say something but he knows how I feel and he won't do anything that would make me uncomfortable.