So I'm very certain my husband has depression. He plays games and sleeps. If I leave to go do something I can't bring my 2 year old he'll turn on the TV for her and do gaming on his laptop. I have to beg him to go do something with our daughter and he gets upset when I want to take a rest. Both of us don't work and are living off savings. My parents are upset he hasn't gotten a job yet. He said he just waiting it out until he can get a teaching job starting in August. My mom's just informed me that she's set up a counseling appointment to have us all talk to a lady about his gaming habits. I've gone to therapy before for my ADHD. I feel very uncomfortable in group settings and would rather just talk to the counselor one on one. I also know how my husband will percieve this because he denies how much time he spends gaming. I've known that he most likely does have depression. He also doesn't activity seek help for it. While it is very stressful for me doing the majority of the work I don't want to press him on the subject until he feels it's necessary. Is my mom doing the right thing or is she overstepping?

Edit: my mom told me she talked to the counselor today and the lady told her tiles have to be set and if he doesn't follow them then he has to be kicked out. Wtf?! My parents want my support, but I think this is definitely taking this too far.