Advice

I’ve been seeing this guy at least once a month since the end of December. We both said we want to take things slow and he keeps mentioning how scared he is to be in a relationship bc he doesn’t want to get hurt again. I get it and I’m trying to be patient but I’ve also got to have some self respect and draw the line somewhere. I’m just worried I’m wasting my time being patient...

What I’m needing advice about is how to bring about that I need to know if this is going somewhere without sounding clingy or whatever?

Please no judgement or rude responses 🙃