Is it true?

Question

That when you start to focus more on yourself that everything in life just gets better for you??? And people who really love you come into your life??

Im a selfless person who literally has no one here for me other than my fiancé which embarrasses me because he has everybody friends and family. My family literally only talks to me when they want something and literally don't care for my opinion for anything, they treat me like I'm an idiot.

I'm socially awkward I think because I never care for really talking to people around me, but I make myself so they won't feel bad. I say things I don't mean and I act almost not really myself so I can seem okay to others. I'm not myself around others that's for sure, I always feel super awkward if I don't talk, like I'm socially retarded.

I just want to be myself more than anything and not care about other people for once. I've been having to put others before me since I've been 12.

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It is absolutely true! Idk what gabber jaws is talking about over here. I mean, I do but I don't see how her little speech fits into your question. Sure, selfless people maybe more blessed but you also have to fill yourself up, too, and can't just keep giving, giving, giving, and giving without ever receiving anything to fill yourself back up, so I really don't know what she is talking about. None of that applies here! You know how they say you must learn to love yourself before you can truly love another? The same principal applies here. You can't give away something in which you don't have.

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It is absolutely true! I used to be a doormat who would do all for others and nothing for me. I changed that by doing things for me. I'm not selfish, but I'm not a doormat either

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Wow no offense but the last 2 comments with the bible in it are the worst comments ever. Did you read the post? I mean really, it's clearly a situation where she's being hurt doing things the selfless way.

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The bible says to "you shall love your neighbor as yourself." I believe people who are selfless and serve others see more satisfaction in their lives than those who are selfish. It's very easy to be selfish and only worry about yourself, but it's a lot harder to care for others ubconditionally. Those who can truly be selfless reap much deeper rewards than those who are selfish.

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Personally, for me, putting others before myself makes me happy. I absolutely LOVE watching the people around me be happy. I think being selfless is a lot better than being selfish. I know some people who are currently going through an "all about me" phase and it doesn't look good on them. If they're not happy NO ONE IS. It makes it hard for myself to even want to make them happy, because it almost seems like nothing can make them happy. The bible

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