My husband wants to start having kids soon. I'm against it right now because I feel as we are not ready. I'm 24 and he's 23. I work full time and he's between jobs. I want us to be settled and able to focus on what we want and not worry about everything. He wants a baby by next year. I want one before I'm 30 but I'm afraid right now. To be honest the whole idea of a kid scares the living crap out of me. I'm afraid to tell him I'm afraid of having kids. He knows about my past and he tells me he won't be like that but it still in my mind he would. I don't know what to do need some advice .