How should I bring it up?

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So I recently had an abortion because the guy I’m casually hooking up with decided it was the best option. He said he’d help with the cost but hasn’t mentioned anything since. I paid $570 and I’m not rich I have two kids of my own but I feel so stupid having to even bring it up. Advice?

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Be straightforward, this isn’t like paying for your meal, he’s offering to pay for something that will drastically change your life. Tell him hey you know how you said you would help me  pay for this? Well it was $570 and I could really use that money now

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You’re just going to have to bring it up. Be blunt and clear.

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It’s just my pride that gets me you know? He’s been very supportive and all but idk I guess I just have to say it. It’s been a week since I got it. I messaged him saying “are you going to be able to help with the abortion?” See how it goes 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Maybe tell him you had to borrow money from a friend to cover his portion and have to pay her back now? Be direct, you don’t owe him any favors.

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Well I definitely wouldn’t be talking to him still and just avoiding it like it didn’t happen ? That’s just too casual

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