Don’t want no hateful comments just want some advice from someone who has done this

I don’t trust many people and due to the fact that I’m posting this anonymously is because I don’t want nobody seeing me differently when I post something on here so here it goes I have smoked alittle bit of weed these last past couple days nothing to big like a whole blunt just like maybe 1 hit or 2 from it and maybe when my boyfriend has his pipe and packs it I hit it just once ... I’ve searched a lot on the internet from other Mother’s and read that they have smoked but there children grow up to be healthy as well as when they are born .. I’ve had a friend who would smoke meth and her baby looks fine and meth is made with rat poison and battery acid & etc .. and her son looks fine my cousin in law would smoke a lot of weed when she was pregnant and she just had her daughter on Sunday and she is perfectly healthy , I am not saying I’m proud of it but if there is any mom out there that has done it can I please know your experience..? I don’t smoke everyday all day I just hit it once/twice nothing more than that .

I know some of you moms are not okay with this but I just want if someone else has done it or has done it before.