Sooo... my husband is obsessed with his penis...

I feel weird about this. I’ve googled and can’t find anything similar to my situation.

Obviously he likes his penis, but he will want to have intercourse by a mirror so he can watch his penis- ignores me — I’ve just started noticing this.

He’ll have me take pictures of it from different angles while he touches it and it makes him harder.

He A L W A Y S wants me to tell him it’s big and compare it to unrealistic things.

He does have a large penis (not bragging at all) and I have never ever told him otherwise. He also knows it’s large so as far as I know he isn’t insecure about it.

He sends me pictures of it all the time when I’m not with him. He’ll ask me “is this big?” “Which pic do you like best?” And he’ll get angry if I don’t respond fast enough/at all (hello! I’m grocery shopping! I 100% don’t want to see or talk about a penis rn)

I always “catch” him watching porn.

He talks about it all the time.

He’ll call for me to meet him downstairs just to see how big his balls are.

Honestly it is REPULSIVE.

Like we have sex often and it’s good sex particularly for him, I pay attention to him, etc.

Im kind of to the point that I feel like there’s something very wrong???

I know the whole thing- I need to talk to him, we should consider counseling, all that stuff. I haven’t brought it up because I didn’t know if it was normal.

I am just curious if anyone has insight or if this is normal. I’ve only ever been with one other guy.

Sorry about any spelling or grammar mistakes. My keyboard doesn’t work well with this app.

* I’m not trying to be funny about this, I really didn’t know it was weird. I am 27 and have very little experience with this stuff. Any advice or insight would really help.