Does anyone else hate when women who are pregnant literally complain about being pregnant 24/7?

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No because everyone is different and many women have difficult and painful pregnancies.

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I literally just gave birth 10 days ago. I complained because it was exhausting, creating life takes a huge toll on your body. I’m sorry for those who have fertility problems, but if I want to complain about my body no longer being just mine I will.

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How I see it is no one enjoys vomiting, being exhausted, bloating, swollen, light headed and generally not feeling normal. That doesn't mean they aren't excited WHY they're feeling this way aka their baby. 
Just cause women (I'm assuming) like us have problems having babies and others aren't doesn't mean we have the right to be mad at other women that are complaining they feel like crud. It's hypocritical to not validate one woman's feelings because she's in one position,but want my feelings validated because I'm in another position.

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No. I hated being pregnant. I felt grateful to be carrying my daughter, especially after trying for 3.5 years, but I was miserable. I had a rough last half. I didn’t complain to everyone, but I understand when others complain. Pregnancy is different for everyone and can be hell. Doesn’t mean they don’t feel lucky to be doing it, just means in the moment they are miserable.

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After two miscarriages and going through IVF to get pregnant I often felt guilty when I started to have trouble with being pregnant. I felt so guilty to complain to my husband. Obviously as IVF friends know I was getting stabbed in the butt every day, shoving pills up my vagina, ripping patches off my skin, and then regular stuff like morning sickness and heart burn.  Also got the flu at 8 weeks!  Now I’m almost 26 weeks with a short cervix, had to get a pessary shoved in which was super painful, have to shove pills in my vagina once again, and I’m pretty much not allowed to do anything but sit. I definitely complain to my husband. At the end of the day I wouldn’t trade anything for this healthy baby, but I no longer feel guilty to complain. I think it’s just about being a bit sensitive about who you complain to. I will keep my thoughts to myself with most people, especially if I know they are struggling because I know how hard that is too. It’s a balance I guess!

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No. Pregnancy can be hard, especially if they have conditions that make it harder, and they’re justified to be upset about it. I could understand why it’s hard for women ttc to hear at that same token tho. But if it was someone who just complained constantly, I would be annoyed by it too and I’m pregnant myself 🤷🏼‍♀️
I hope you get a BFP soon. Baby dust!

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It took me 3 years and IVF to concieve my daughter. I was convinced I would never complain. I was wrong. Pregnancy is rough. I'm lucky enough to be pregnant again after having a miscarriage and I'm even more miserable because I'm caring for a toddler. I puke my guts out while she watches and cries, I'm beyond exhausted and not getting more than 4 hours a sleep a night, and just generally hot, uncomfortable, and impatient as fuck. I completely understand how that sounds like paradise to many women, so of course I'm mindful of what I say and who I say it in front of. But it's still rough for many women. It's women that have easy pregnancies that drive me crazy. Sorry ladies, I really don't want others to suffer, but I'm super jealous!

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No. As hard as i struggled and how bad i wanted it i still had a lot during my pregnancy to complain about being sick and tired and in pain all the time it can get pretty miserable

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Nope, I had to go through IVF top get pregnant and I'm 26 weeks now. Growing a human is rough sometimes. I throw up often, I'm in pain. I worked damn hard to get this baby in me, I feel as though I can complain about being in pain. But that doesn't mean I'm not so extremely happy to be pregnant! It's worth all of the pain.

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Took us 4 years and 3 rounds of ivf to have a baby and I would not take back any of the complaints. On top of pregnancy just being really uncomfortable I puked until the end of my pregnancy and got cholestasis.

Does anyone else hate when women who are pregnant literally complain about being pregnant 24/7?

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