No idea what to do.
I don’t even know how to start this post honestly. Yesterday morning I found a text on my husbands phone with a security code to get into his Plenty Of Fish account. And I got so mad and he said he didn’t get on there and if he had he would’ve been smart enough to delete the text cause we both use each other’s phones.
I let it go because we otherwise it would be nonstop fights with him just being defensive.
So this morning like 2 minutes ago I googled his username he used to have that account that I found out about. And I read comments on porn sites. 2 years ago though. Saying he knew the girl from a local strip club even though he SWEARS he’s never even been to one. I could ask him right now and he would swear he never has.
Summer 2016 we broke up because I found out he was spending tons of money on girls online buying pictures and things. I had to lend him money in previous months and I never would have if I knew why he hadn’t had any. We got back together and engaged after we sorted that out.
Now it’s 3 years later and we haven’t had a problem in over 2 years with any of this stuff but I feel like it’s all creeping back up and I feel as hurt as the first time.
I just need some advice on how to either move forward or try to get him talking about it without being told to go stay at my parents.