So basically my bf has been hanging out with his old friend lately and his friend has tried to make him cheat on me and leave me so many times in the past and I'm still so hurt about it. He's also very controlling and doesn't let me have friends and I can't wear what I want, etc. (may 21, 2018, my boyfriend almost cheated on me with this girl that had been trying to fuck him knowing that he had a gf and his friend set it up. He has also gotten nudes from 2 people at the very beginning of our relationship and jerked off to them basically right in front of me. We have been dating for 1 year and almost 8 months). So anyway the point of this story is that my boyfriend and his friend went swimming at the YMCA and they met this small group of people with like 2 girls and 1 guy. They decided to all get a hotel and drink and smoke. I know he would not be okay with it if I did that. Like he would probably accuse me of cheating. Just a few minutes ago I texted him and was telling him how I felt about it and he just told me to chill and then got one of the girls to text me saying that he wasn't going to do anything. I'm so scared. I love him so much and I really need advice.

Update: i think he broke up with me idk though but last night around 12 his friend called me and started going on about how my boyfriend loves me so much and then my boyfriend said he loved me and goodnight. So this morning he texts me and starts going off on me saying I don't trust him and he kept calling me selfish and that i make everything about me. He also told me to fuck off and leave him alone. So idek what's going on but I feel so broken and I haven't stopped crying