TM (sex related) I: Need experience from moms

I am 4 months PP, and sex still doesn't seem the same.

I feel like I have lost so much "sensation." It no longer hurts to have sex, but it doesn't feel nearly as good as it use to. I don't feel loose or anything, I just feel like I have damaged nerves or something.

My husband and I did foreplay and he fingered me (only with 1 finger) and I could hardly even feel it and ended up crying in the middle because I just kind of lost it since that's something that use to be fun.

Me on top and him on top just isn't super intense for me... pretty much only doggie kind of feels good, but still not great..

Is this normal?

Will it get better?

Should I make an appointment with a doctor to discuss this stuff?

Thanks!

I wrote in this section of the app because I need input from woman who have had children. I birthed my baby vaginally and had 1 first degree tear near my urethra