Cheating..?

Question

Has anybody ever been cheated on? 
If you don’t mind sharing....How did you find out, what were your suspicions, and what did you do?

Answer

I never really felt like he would be capable of doing something like that but we went through a really rough patch and we were arguing a lot. On our one year anniversary he gets so drunk he tells me he slept with this girl I knew the night before, worst night of my life. I somehow forgave him cos I was so naive and being away from him seemed to hurt even more. He promised to block her and never speak to her again and he literally tried everything to get me back. 6 months later I look through his laptop and find out they’ve never stopped having sex..

Answer

Honestly didn’t even think mine was cheating. I just got on his phone to check the bank account and I hadn’t been through his phone in a while. I had the perfect opportunity so I started with Snapchat. I realized he had added two girls. This was strange to me because he had it for about a year with no girls and all of a sudden they’re there like what? Lol so I clicked on this group chat that these two girls and another guy was in and it seemed innocent. But I was still curious. So I acted like I was going to send a snap and whenever I did this girl was his number one best friend. I erased the message searched her name up under the chat thing and low and behold there was so much flirting and the sad part about it was she knew about me. Whenever I asked him about it he said he didn’t think it was anything serious. I basically told him to get his shit and leave but for some reason he was super stubborn. So I went and sat in the rain in the woods for a couple of hours and ignored him. And thought long and hard about what I should do. I ended up giving him one more
Chance and so far we’ve
Been good!

Answer

He said he was going to a friends house and 3 days later this chick messaged me saying if I knew this guy aka my ex I said yeah he’s my boyfriend why she sent me pics of their conversation and said they had sex four times and I was pregnant at the time

Answer

His friend was supposed to be coming over that night. He told me to keep an eye on his phone while he was in the shower and to text his friend back if he texted. Well, someone texted. A video of her fingering herself. Then sent a video of MY boyfriend and her having sex. So that was a great way to find out. Honestly the worst part about all of it was I never once trusted him our entire relationship. If I hadn’t gotten into a relationship with him, I wouldn’t have gotten hurt. And that is why trust is SO important to me now, and I will (and have) end a relationship if I doubt my trust or my partner doesn’t trust me

Answer

He kept looking up his ex’s on Facebook which I thought was sketchy 
Would spend sooo much time on his phone 
Seemed to angle his phone out of my view whenever he was on it 
I checked his blocked numbers when he got back from working out of state 
See a bunch of newly blocked numbers (on iPhone they are listed in the order they’re blocked) 
He says he’s had them blocked forever but I knew that was a lie because I knew what was the last number before he went out of town (I made sure I knew because it was a women he exchanged numbers with WHILE we were together)  
So being an FBI agent and not a dumb ass bitch 
I texted the numbers a picture of him and asked if they’d been in contact or seen him 
1 was a girl he met at a bar and asked her to have some fun that night
2 was an ex that he had apparently cheated on me with in the beginning of our relationship and tried having sex with her two separate times (she was too busy to meet up but he tried) 
3 was an ex he asked to hook up 
4 was a woman he used to date and ended up going for dinner with 
He is literal scum. In two weeks away from me he spent all his free time trying to fuck women from his past or new women from bars 
All of these happened after a drunken night he exchanged numbers with a bartender when he was mad at me. I chose to forgive him and he promised never to fuck up again (the woman who’s number is blocked) 
Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater

Answer

His car smelt like perfume and he kept working late. And admitted staying late to give a girl a ride home so she didn’t have to walk.

Cheating..?

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