Okay I met this guy at my job at the boardwalk over the summer and he asked for my number. It was pretty cool too because I was giving him and his friends free shots at the basketball game I was working and he was like,"if I make this in, I get your number" and of course he got it in. After that day we hadn't spoken for a week. Then suddenly or of nowhere he told me he was coming down the shore for the weekend and wanted to see me. I pretended I forgot about him and he magically made me remember him. So I agreed to hang out with him. On the Saturday he came down I was working so he came to visit me and waited for me to go on break. When I went on break we went onto the beach and started talking to get to know each other. Then he stared doing a magic trick when I would have to guess which hand the seashell was in and I had 3chances to get the right answer and if I lose he would get to kiss me. Of course I lost and we kissed and the 40 minutes was just great. Then he asked me to hang out the next day and I played a little hard to get and told him maybe but obviously I ended up agreeing. That day we agreed he'd pick me up at 1:30. The time came and he didn't show up. He wasn't answering his phone or anything. Turns out he slept in really late but wanted to make it up to me and really wanted to hang out. I ended up giving in and we went to another boardwalk in Seaside and we were getting to know each other and what not. The whole day was just really nice. Then later on in the night we started making out in his car and he led my hand to his 🍆 which I wasn't too comfortable with but he was fine with me stopping. I kinda like it tho because throughout the time we spent in his car it went from hot and heavy to giggles and comfort. He told me that I was really cool and wanted to hang out more but we haven't seen each other since and that was back in August. We still talk here and there but not a lot and it makes me so confused because one day he goes from calling me baby and sweet talking me into hanging out with him, to bailing on me 3 TIMES and not talking to me. He lives an hour away but he said that's not a big deal but at the same time he makes it one. He invited me to his friends beach house and was like hinting that he wanted to bang or at least get something but I'm not comfortable with that and told him he should ask someone else yet he still insisted on wanting to be with me and claimed he was kidding and would never push me to do something I'm not comfortable with. From that night on things slowly started escalating from that day and we started sexting. We were suppose to hang out this past weekend but the very last minute he hit me with that,"can you bring a friend because I'm coming down with my friend" and I had no one to bring since I thought t was just going to be me and him. Moral of this long ass story, I DONT KNOW WHAT WE ARE. It's so confusing. Am I just a bootycall? Or does he actually like me? We're so comfortable with each other but at the same time there's still so much we don't know about each other. Is he just a fuckboy? Am I being too prude? I how stay don't know what to ask or how to ask for advice. If anyone has any opinions or advice or tips please comment below. Thank you.