Overwhelming MIL

Without sounding ungrateful, is anyone else feeling overwhelmed by their Mother in Law? We have gotten much closer since we’ve been TTC but our relationships was rocky before. This will be her first grandchild so she is understandably excited. I actually love how excited she is and I know she’ll make a great Nana.

But I’m getting worried about the small comments. She wants to be at the birth, omg! And they want to babysit, and help do feeds. I’ll be breastfeeding so I won’t be leaving my baby.

I love the idea of introducing the bubba to extended family but MIL suggested taking them to see them on their own, as a day out with the grandparents.

Already panicking, help!