Accidentally unsupportive friend

A friend of mine had twins the day after I had my second baby. So we’re constantly sharing parenting stories. She’s lovely and I do understand where she’s coming from. But so many of her comments are about how one baby would be so easy. I can’t even imagine how tricky twins would be so I’m not trying to say it’s easy. But it’s frustrating that she doesn’t realise that a baby and a toddler can be hard too. Sorry, just venting.