How to get past this fear?

I have one child and plan to start TTC soon, but for some reason I am terrified. My first child I never knew the love for a child so when I was pregnant the thought would cross my that I was afraid it would end up in a miscarriage or still birth because I had an over active uterus... but it didnt cross my mind the way it does now and I am not even pregnant. Luckily I held her in until 38 weeks when I gave birth.

Now my husband and I discussed trying for our second and I am just terrified I will miscarry or have a stillborn... to the point I feel like it holds me back from going forward.

A friend of mine lost her twins at 22 weeks pregnant, and it was an eye opener that this stuff happens to real people... and being on this app I hear of so many people having miscarriages that I think It just really terrifies me.. how do i get past this to go forth and ttc?

My heart goes out to the woman people have experienced a loss, but I am so terrified of it happening to me. Please help me with words on encouragement or something.