I may be dead wrong for this

but my bf is pale as all get out and we have white sheets and pillows. when we’re sleeping, I can’t see him sometimes. he’s so pale he blends in with the sheets lol. we’re interracial and I don’t want to offend him at all, even though I definitely know he’ll laugh if I brought it up, so I haven’t said anything but seriously I couldn’t find him last night and then my eyes focused and he was right there, blending in with the sheet 😂

btw the lights were off but it wasn’t that dark in the room bc our window is right by a light outside.