Have you ever felt like you loved an SO but you just weren't in love with them? Like you love them being in your life but don't have much in common/don't have sex much? I feel so confused right now.

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Yes absolutely. My SO and I have been married three years. Last year we were on the brink of a divorce. Felt so out of touch etc etc. A year later we are so in love and TTC #1 relationships/marriage don't just happen you need to be putting constant effort in. Always thinking of you SO and how you can improve as a person. Don't be worried or nervous it's normal but remind yourself of why you got with your SO x

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I've been kind of feeling that the past few months. I figure it's mostly due to my depression and both of our stress levels because last week I felt better and it was like we were teenagers again...

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Maybe your just a low point in the relationship right now, or maybe if you never felt really in love with him, you are settling for second best. Figure it out. If you are settling,  i encourage you to leave and find the best for you.  Good luck!

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Okay I don't speak of the particulars of my first marriage often. But this question is pretty much how it was. I loved him but I wasn't in love with him. The sex life was lacking because I had no desire to be with him. We didn't have sex for the last 3 years of our marriage. We stayed together but it just wasn't there for me anymore. I really struggled with the decision to leave for a lot of years. I finally decided that life was too short to be married to someone that didn't make you happy. I left the marriage and I couldn't be happier. The only one difference is I didn't want to be with him.

You have to ask yourself why the sex life isn't there too much. Is it you or him? Or both. Also you have to be sure you are not in love with them. Some people fall out of love or never were in love. There is also so many different types of love. Third you have to see if you can spend the rest of your life with this person with how things are now. What would need to change?

I wanted that amazing madly in love with someone feeling. Life is short and I deserved it. I found it later on. Had I not settled for less before I may of never found it.

I hope this helped a little. I was so confused for years. I was with my ex husband for 8 years and married for 7. The last year was our separation.

Have you ever felt like you loved an SO but you just weren't in love with them? Like you love them being in your life but don't have much in common/don't have sex much? I feel so confused right now.

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