Boyfriend abused ex wife...

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months and I love him. I trust him and he treats me amazing.

He was married before. And a few different times he and his ex wife would get into a fight and he choked her and pushed her. He got very mean. He doesn't drink so it's not like he was drunk. And he also raped her a few times. They were going through some bad times. She was always talking down to him and making him feel like crap about himself.. so I understand why he blew up at her. HOWEVER, I do not agree with how he handled it whatsoever.

Sometimes I feel stupid for being with him. But I've never once felt like I was in any kind of danger with him. I actually feel safe and loved. Then I remind myself, his ex probably felt the same way after only 6 months. He took anger management classes for almost a year. And he says he regrets it and won't ever do it again. I believe him, but what if I'm wrong ? We've gotten into a few different fights, but he has never once raised his voice at me or anything. We always resolve the problem in a few mintues. I honestly believe he's the one for me.

What would you do in a situation like this ?

Glow Resources

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

Glow helps you navigate your fertility journey with smart tools, personalized insights, and guidance from medical experts who understand what matters most.

25+ million

Users

4.8 stars

200k+ app ratings

20+

Medical advisors