Does your SO's weight matter?

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Yes and no. Heres my experience i guess:

My SO is quite overweight (thats not me being pretentious). He weighs around 118kgs (around 250lbs). It's not muscle, and his body stores fat in very strange ways. (He's said himself "its not really the weight that gets to me, its the shape of my body. I shouldn't have breasts :(")
My poor sweetheart :( it breaks my heart when I hear him like this.

Now for the amount of love I feel towards him in relevance to his weight.
 I love him to the end of the universe x infinity plus 1 however much he says he loves me <3

His weigt doesnt affect at all how I treat him, or what I think of him, or how much I love him.

But it does make me worry about him, he worries as well. I want him to be healthy and live a long happy life and not feel embarrassed to go swimming, or walk around the park anymore, or worry so much about how his shirt makes him look. He wants to look really nice for our wedding and I want to look sexy for him :)

We are both in need of losing weight too. I need to lose about 30kgs and he needs to lose about 40kgs. So we're just both working towards our goals as a couple. Its hard as hell working out. But we're trying a little more every week :)

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I think it matters in certain situations. If it's harming them in any way, whether they're overweight or underweight, I just want them to be healthy. :)

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My boyfriend is quite overweight. When we first met I wasn't sure how I felt about it, but I live him very much. He treats me how I want to be treated and despite his weight he never fails to turn me on. I'm also overweight so how can I be choosy? Plus sides to having a plus size man is he most likely won't judge you on your weight, they are great to cuddle with, and they can be just as sexy as any other man. So to me weight doesn't matter as long as his weight isn't negatively effecting his health.

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She's underweight. I'm not "skinny shaming" or anything, but the doctor says it's affecting the way her medicines ability to work. Which is dangerous, but she just doesn't eat. She doesn't want to get fat and lose her figure, which is important to her becuase she's trans. Yes, it matters.

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