Help.. I hate to admit it but my marriage is falling apart...we have been together 3years and just had our first child together...he has changed so much abd gotten so bitter...did I do something? ? Why do we alwats fight??

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Honestly, you've been married longer than I have. But I feel we are in the same boat. It happens, it can be stress or even depression causing him to be bitter. My husband is struggling right now being unemployed, and I noticed that it weighs on him heavily. Sometimes you have to try and see things from their perspective, maybe it could help save the marriage. I know things get rough and sometimes you might feel like he doesn't understand or even care. But he does. Sometimes he might say mean things or say things he doesn't mean, but we as the wives have to be able to accept that they don't know how to deal with emotions as effectively as we do. Mainly because men are told to "suck it up". If it helps at all, maybe trying praying for your husband after you guys argue. I'll keep you in my prayers as well. I sure hope this helps. Just know that you're not alone. And that you are loved.

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My husband went weird for awhile when our first child was born for about 6 months

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Men go thur that. Give him time. And if he get worst and worst then maybe try marriage counseling. It helps Ive been thur it. It's not easy but it helps and of you are truly meant to be together then its worth everything. Even more because of that amazing baby!

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I think it's everything is all about communication try to have a civil conversation with ask him how he's feeling  and if he doesn't wanna talk just tell him you'll be ready to listen when he does but that he also needs to take it a little more easy on your feelings

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I understand that sometimes we need someone to talk to but I suggest keep in the family dont tell you're problems to friends or the public...:(

Help.. I hate to admit it but my marriage is falling apart...we have been together 3years and just had our first child together...he has changed so much abd gotten so bitter...did I do something? ? Why do we alwats fight??

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