Lost for words!

My boyfriend found out a month ago that his dad was diagnosed with stomach cancer, then they find out it was to severe for surgery. So with all this we put off on telling his side of the family about the baby cause they had so much to focus on already. Which I understand why he wanted to hold off. Now everything changed. 😔😞😩😭 His Dad was rushed to the hospital because he wasn’t breathing but he never made it in the ambulance. So now I’m lost with words on how to comfort him and deal with this pregnancy. Everything is just happening at the wrong time for us.