Who did you have in the delivery room with you? With my first, i had only planned for my hubby but ended up wanting my mom in there too. Kind of a mistake because she started complaining that her arms hurt from holding my leg and her legs hurt from standing (i was pushing for 2 1/2 hours) and my husband joined in with her and complained too. This time around, im considering just my hubby and not my mom. I might let my MIL be in there too since we're pretty close and i know for a fact that she won't do any of that and i know she'd love to be there for the birth of her grandchild. Sorry for the long post. Im a bit conflicted but i have plenty of time to decide